Fear

Fear. 

Are you scared? 

Scared being on your own? 

Scared of your future? 

Are you scared of raising your kids on your own? 

Are you scared you can’t keep up with your finances? The list goes on. My answer is yes I was scared. 

In my experience I was scared of the unknown. I was scared of many things like;

1. Reality of being a widow.

2. My plans are all stuffed up - I was scared of my future.

3. Continue to live without my soul mate. 

4. Not having a family - I’m never going to have kids. 

5. My living arrangements. 

6. Finances.

The list goes on. 

Fear is very common when it comes to grieving or if you are suffering from a loss. 

We cannot hide or run away from our grieving process, eventually you will need to face it and go through it. 

When I tried to run away from reality of losing Age it only made my health and my mental state worse. 

When I decided to face reality by admitting (being true to your feelings) that I’m angry, sad, depressed and eating excessively. I started to get stronger. 

Even when you do face reality the pain will still be there but you learn to cope through the loss. You will start to become stronger. 

Speaking from experience, I believe we have the strength to face it. You can do anything with the Lord on your side. 

Don’t be afraid for The Lord your God is with you always. 

Beautiful art work by @TaniaWursig. This picture resonates with me about strength and resilience. 

You are strong and you can do this. 

Love you all and God Bless MISS.AGE❤️