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The Worst Day of My Life

The Worst Day of My Life – Let The Trials Begin;

My husband died suddenly on the 20/10/2017.
Adrian Taualii was not sick he was healthy in fact there was no signs of him being ill.

Adrian planned a getaway for his family and I for my birthday at Cowes in Victoria Australia afterwards he wanted to take me to spend my 33rd birthday in Sydney with my family.
We checked into our beach house in Cowes on the 16/10/19 around midday. Everything was great we laughed and enjoyed ourselves.

The next day 17/10/17 seemed normal, Adrian was his normal joking self. That afternoon Adrian told me he wanted to go and relax and have a power nap,

Adrian woke up during that night told me he wasn't feeling well. I told Age we should see a doctor now. But Age being the man he is he told me he should be fine in the morning. If not we agreed to  see a doctor the next morning.

The next morning on 18/10/17 - Adrian was not well he refused to see a doctor that morning. Age wanted to sleep. I was so worried, because I never seen Age so ill. That afternoon Age agreed to see a doctor.
We went to the local medical centre in Cowes. The doctor took one look at Adrian and rushed him to the nearest hospital which was an hour away.

The Last conversation I had with my husband was 19/10/17: Adrian and I prayed for God's mercy upon us and to guide Age through his operation.

After our prayer;
Age told me "Baby I love you so much and I'm so sorry to put you through all of this. Thank you baby, you make me so happy. Thank you for loving me and thank you for loving my family. You are the best wife in this world. It’s been an honour to be your husband.

If I don’t make it bub, you need to move back to your dad who loves you more than anyone after me. But don’t forget to check in with my father. Promise me you will live a long life and serve the Lord regardless how hard it’s going to be? Promise Me?”  I responded and told him that God has us and he will be okay. Adrian wanted the reassurance that I will keep my word. So I gave him that reassurance.

After our last chat the doctors allowed me to walk aside him to the theatre – Whilst I was following Age getting pushed into the theatre. Age told me to sing with him the song called “Nothing but the Blood of Jesus” So we sang together until he closed his eyes.

Adrian went into theatre on the 19/10/19 - had a major operation. Age was admitted to three different hospitals with at top cover in hospitals and the best doctors in Victoria - They tried their best to help Age.

Age the love of my life the man who taught me how love the Lord regardless how tough it gets - passed away at 11:20am on the Friday the 20/10/17.

Seven days after on the 27/10/17 my husband’s family service (Rosary) was held – The 2710/17 was my birthday - The last day and night I spent with my husband lying in his coffin.

My husband fought a good fight– He died from Necrotising Fasciitis.




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