How to move forward?

QUESTION: How to move forward?

I’ve been getting a lot of recent messages about; How did I move forward? How can I continue living life without Age ?

My Answer is: I wanted life, the truth is I knew at some point, I had to make a choice to live or die with a broken heart. It wasn’t an easy decision to make. Early stages in my journey as widow, I wanted to follow Age to his grave.
But I thought about my family, love ones and my mates and how unfair it would be for them, if I allowed my grieving to deteriorate me. I thought about the lives of others that would be affected if I had passed away. With all these thoughts running through my mind I knew at that point my Heavenly Father gave me his strength to choose life.

There are too many widows allowing their grieving to become a stronghold, as if they have shackles around them. The enemy does not want you to move forward, he wants to break you.

Moving forward is hard but letting go of the past is the hardest. God allows us to grieve but he also wants us to remove ourselves from grieving.

Our mess becomes our message. You can live and help others to break free too.

My encouragement is ask God what does he wants you to do?
Or Think about what is important to you right now?

My story to to help others have a breakthrough from grieving.
I pray this message helps.

Miss.Age❤️

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