Dating.

“Single are you ready to mingle”

Being a widow has been the most hardest journey I’ve ever in encounter in my life. It has been also a blessing that Our Heavenly Father is able to heal me and to give me the strength to continue this journey without my wonderful, increditable, loving, handsome husband. God is Good!!!! 

But I wanted to talk about this topic “DATING”. There are a lot of you writing to me about this topic. 

It’s been 2 years and 3 months since  my husband Age has passed away. I have no urgency or the desire to date anyone because I enjoy being fully whole with God. Spending time with my Heavenly Father and my loved ones is what I need for this season. But if it’s the Lords will for me to have another husband. ( hmmmm man that sounds weird??). Well that’s God’s instructions. But at this moment in my life,  I’m happy trying to fix me and fix my eyes onto God. 

People ask me all the time, “When will I be ready to date?” My answer always is, “When you don’t need to!” Or “ When God wants me to date again” You are ready to date when you don’t need to. As long as you NEED to date to fill a hole in your heart, fix a broken heart, run from daddy issues, or overcome an addiction, then you are not ready to date. Or it could be that you don’t want too because you are not ready. But that’s okay. Only you know truly when it’s the right timing, everyone is different. It really depends on the person. 

What you really need is the Holy Spirit.  When you seek Him, He makes you whole. Then the issue of dating will become a matter of WANT, not NEED.

Man that was a hard topic for me to write.lol 😅😅😅. Hey I hope I answered your questions. That’s my advice and encouragement - to all who wanted me to write about dating. 

God bless and Much love Y’all Miss.Age❤️