My Ring

My Ring.

You’ll probably thinking when would be the best time to take off my ring? The answer is there is no timeframe when to take off your ring. 

For me it took me almost two years after my husband death, for me to have the courage to take my ring off. 

Looking at my ring was a reminder of our love.

I took my ring off because it helped me with my healing process. Looking at my ring was constant reminder of our love but my husband was no longer here which broke my heart. 

In my experiences wearing my ring - made me live in denial that my husband was alive or how I thought he will come back to me. At one point I was thinking that Age (my husband) was on a long vacation. Wearing my ring was a security blanket to avoid facing my reality. Maybe that might not be the case for other widows. But for me it did.

I felt the time was right for me to accept that my Age (Husband) is in Heaven and Age is never coming back. I needed to let go and keep moving forward. 

I’m not going to promise you that it’s an easy process. 

When I decided to take my ring off. I was depressed, I hated my life, I didn’t want to live and I was crying for days, weeks, months and the pas two years. With my experience it was hard. 

My encouragement is we need to eventually let go. It’s the hardest decision to make; make the decision when you are ready. Don’t worry about what others think or let others tell you what to do. Take your time and be true to yourself. 

You are strong and your are courageous. You are capable. You can do this. 

Be You, Be Real, Be Authentic.

MISS.AGE❤️