My Husband's Love;
The easiest way to harm a relationship is to look at a person and think, You will never change. Thankfully, God always believes we can change, and therefore, He continues to work with us.
The first YEAR of my marriage to Adrian, my behavior was at its worst. I had never been in a healthy relationship and honestly had no idea how to behave in one. My thoughts about marriage, and what to expect from a relationship, were all warped and unrealistic. When I asked Adrian Taualii what enabled him to stick with me, he says, “I knew that God could change you.” Wow!
Adrian’s belief that God could change me was a key factor in my healing. I only felt love from him. Sadly, most of the time I couldn’t receive it, but that didn’t stop him from being who he was. He kept offering love, and he remained joyful. God keeps giving even if we have not yet learned how to receive, and we can learn to do the same thing in our relationships with other people.
I have learned that I am not responsible for the changes in others, God is. I am only responsible to fulfill the law of Christ, which is love! I think we focus too much on the results instead of just being fulfilled in knowing we are doing what God is asking of us.
We have all heard amazing stories of how people have been changed by God. Many of them involve God using someone who was willing to believe and not give up on them. Let God use you. Start believing that anybody can change.
Anyone can change. MISS.AGE.
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