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HAPPY

Can I be HAPPY again? Going through this - “my” unplanned journey as a widow, was the most hardest experiences in my life. I had other hardships in my journey as a girl, teen, young woman, but nothing compared to losing someone you truly love so much.  During my early days into widowhood, I’ve never imagine, I would be so happy, so free and so much at peace. From this day I am amazed. I give all the praises to my Heavenly Father for giving me his strength and his grace to pull through.  The answer to my question - Yes I can be happy again. God just wants us to be happy.  Is happiness really the greatest good in the world? Statements like “Happy wife, happy life” and “The ultimate goal of life is the pursuit of happiness” have been staples in our society for as long as I can remember. But is that what God’s main priority for our lives is—to just be happy?  Now, don’t get me wrong. I’m not anti-happy. I’m a big fan of healthy happiness. What I’m ...

Dating.

“Single are you ready to mingle” Being a widow has been the most hardest journey I’ve ever in encounter in my life. It has been also a blessing that Our Heavenly Father is able to heal me and to give me the strength to continue this journey without my wonderful, increditable, loving, handsome husband. God is Good!!!!  But I wanted to talk about this topic “DATING”. There are a lot of you writing to me about this topic.  It’s been 2 years and 3 months since  my husband Age has passed away. I have no urgency or the desire to date anyone because I enjoy being fully whole with God. Spending time with my Heavenly Father and my loved ones is what I need for this season. But if it’s the Lords will for me to have another husband. ( hmmmm man that sounds weird??). Well that’s God’s instructions. But at this moment in my life,  I’m happy trying to fix me and fix my eyes onto God.  People ask me all the time, “When will I be ready to date?” My answer a...

Psalms 37:4

Psalms 37:4.  This scripture helped me during my pain of losing Age. I hope that it will bring you comfort, peace and hope. Even though I didn’t understand why the Lord allowed Adrian to pass away.  I still believe that God will help me through this. I believed that Our Heavenly  Father was going to put back the million shattered pieces of my heart together again.   Through his word I understood my unplanned future was going to be okay. I served a Lord who loves us unconditionally.   It’s hard I’m not going to tell you that it’s easy.  But my faith in the Lord kept me. I thank God for his grace and mercy in my life.   My encouragement for - Your unplanned future is in the Lords hands and he will bless you with all your hearts desires.  Be Strong and Courageous. Much love and blessings to you all MISS.AGE❤️

John 1:9

Young Widows Journey

The Tasks of Grief .

Storms

But how do we keep faith in the middle of a storm? It’s easy to say that our faith won’t falter when life is going smoothly, but it’s harder to say so when you’re in the midst of a storm. Sometimes all you can do is stand tall and push straight through.  The best thing to do to overcome a difficult time is to keep on pushing through. There is a difference between standing still and staying stagnant. Choosing to stand firm against your opposition is still a decision. Staying the course is a choice. Standing is a move! You can always give up. You can always quit. You can always turn your back on what you’re doing. Standing firm in your faith is often the most difficult decision that there is. It is also often the best decision there is. There was an old phrase used among sailors they would call out “hold fast”. This phrase would be shouted over the sound of thunder or a storm ahead.  When this phrase was used, it meant to stay at your position. To ...